Traffic Jam!

This can happen anytime but most often when you are in hurry. There can reasons or no reason at all upon why there was so much of jam around. With the regret of the decision to choose this path to the worry of reaching the destination in the desired time; the emotions are travelling length to breadth of your body. Sometimes it so happens that the signal is green but no one can move an inch. There are so many people around, everyone in the same situation but still disconnected. You are almost choking to death with the pollution coming out of the vehicles which are kept on, but still keeping a hope that either the wait gets over or the people switch off their vehicles.

Our mind goes into a similar situation very often. There are so many thoughts entangled with each other that even if we have a brilliant opportunity we are unable to move. The thoughts of regret of choices that are made before to the thoughts of worry what we will land into - these emotions are actually travelling length to breadth of your mind and you result in being freezed. What should I say? What should I do? Most of the time – NOTHING. You just keep a lame hope that everything will be all right one day.

I feel the only solution to this is choose one thought and give closure to it. Bring that thought to a conclusion and make a choice either to hold on or let go. Don’t leave it with ambiguity, anxiety and questions. At times. it is OK to choose to let go of such things, people, experiences who had been integral part of your life as their role is over. If it hurts, it hurts so I need to get healed by letting it go. Sometimes it is OK to choose the toughest path if you feel it’s right for you. This is what makes you feel being you so be it, choose.

All that needs to be done is make a decision. One by one, let every thought of yours get healed and slowly you shall move on. The traffic will get cleared.