Umbilical Cord!!

It’s a biological connection between a mother & her unborn child. This cord plays the most important role in the growth of the fetus. In the duration of nine months, when the child is struggling to make space within, the umbilical cord provides all the necessary nutrients preparing him to face the world which has more than enough space but lacks the warmth of a womb.

When a child is mature enough he pushes himself out and then the importance of that umbilical cord reaches an end. This needs to be cut as there is no need. Irrespective of how the child shapes up within or his survival status at that moment… he has to get detached so that he can grow or die on his own.

That’s how relationships are. A thought gets conceived & there starts the journey of a relationship. It keeps growing within beyond your control & you nurture it with your best feelings and thoughts so that it shapes up to face the world. You feed it through your own imaginary umbilical cord where a unique emotional connection is established. Even in pain you will chose to smile expecting that you will accept whatever is destined. When a relationship matures and reaches the last step, it pushes itself to come out and then you get to see the real virtue of your efforts.

You might give birth to a relation that might be either alive or dead or retarded…however it may turn out to be, you now have to cut that umbilical cord and allow it to grow or die on its own.

That’s what is known as detachment…I guess so....