Everything is Temporary!!

My best friend used to say “Nothing is forever” and my heart used to sink and feel how is that possible. There has to be something that is forever like love, hate, emotions, souls…



Ahhh!! Too philosophical…let me just get into the face and say the bitter truth “Everything is temporary”


And there goes one electric bulb enlightened on my head showing my bright aura :P. my heart suddenly feels better, though the meaning of both the phrases are same. It’s absolutely illogical for something within us (call it heart, brain, emotions, hormones...whatever) to react differently upon the phrases which mean the same. But that what we say…Different perception make you feel differently.


Everything is temporary…I repeat in my mind. Today’s fears becomes tomorrow’s bravery, today’s confidence may become tomorrow’s fear. Today’s friends become foes tomorrow. Today’s stranger becomes best of your friends. Today’s love is lost tomorrow. Today’s challenge becomes your right hand job. The innocent baby today becomes an adult tomorrow. Today’s life is becomes death tomorrow. Everything moves because everything is temporary. The shape, color, vigor, character is never the same.


Then where is the reference point? What should we refer to if one needs to do a comparison or analysis upon where you have reached? The actual truth is there is no reference point; it’s just a flow…flow of events, flow of different people coming and going, flow of changing attitudes. One can never understand where they have reached, cause every situation needs a different way to be handled...you may have to modify, stretch, be stern or sometimes just be neutral … you just keep learning new ways to deal with it.


However successful, rich and famous you become you still have challenges till your last breath. You are always challenged at every level….if you are a king or a beggar, if you are a super star or a loser, if you are a leader or a follower. It doesn’t matter where you reach but its most important how you reached. Did you surpass with your own effort or took an easy way out…


It doesn’t matter if what kind of life I am leading…the more important is how I am leading it. Yesterday’s challenge is just history; you still have to live up to the next challenge to survive.


Have you ever thought how it would be if I got a chance to live a superstar’s life…I feel it would be no different cause you still are flooded with different set of challenges. Everyone is playing the lead role is their own life and the life is also temporary so either you choose to live others way or your way you still are bound to face bumps and potholes. At least I choose to live it my way and it feels great to see myself in the lead role for the movie called “My Life” :)