There had been great warriors who have either won or lost
the battle in some ages. Remember the scenes of Mahabharat where the armies would
dash into each other. There would be arrows hitting each other & sparks
coming across. There would be blood shed, bruises, injuries which left the
soldiers dead, crippled or sometimes alive.
Days haven’t changed much. There is a battle like Mahabharat
running within everyone. Its the battle between MIND & HEART…rather
conscious & sub conscious self. Something what Shakesphere said “to be or
not to be”.
The conflict of opinion between these two seems like making
a choice between right & wrong. But in reality there is nothing that can be
defined as “Wrong”. Everything is right in its own way, but the process of
understanding your way leads us to this battle.
Most of the times, I keep wondering how to win this battle,
how to make a decision. Cause whatever I may decide today might just change
tomorrow, so what is the point? When is that I reach to this stage where I keep
my foot down & say “Yes! This is it” or for that matter even if I feel
so..will the nature reciprocate that way? Will everything work out the way I
feel is right?
Honestly speaking the moment you have these questions
bothering, you actually are feeding a fox named “doubt”. It just gives you
enough arms & ammunition to start the BATTLE. You finally feel injured,
bruised & drained out. Isn’t there any way to come out of it alive?
Have you seen a child? They do not get into the rut of “how
to make a decision”. All that they do is “decide” & move on. And what makes
them choose? Nothing…they just follow their instinct. Their sub conscious take
over the conscious cause it’s not developed yet which keeps them away from
false fantacies. A child is a father of man….Well said William Wordsworth
So after penning this down I feel there is no rocket science
mechanics that anyone has to learn while making decisions. Imagine yourself in
a dark cave & you can see a light at a distance. The choice is whether you
wanna move out or stay in? If you have chosen to move out then just follow the
light.