Challenged!!

As and when I had been watching the physically challenged people, I kept wondering how difficult their lives would be to do daily activities, to survive, to grow. But when I see them adapt & cope with their challenges, I see them being as normal as us. I started cementing the wavering belief of “When the Universe provides Challenges, it gives enough strength to overcome them”.


They are having equal opportunities as we all have; rather they create opportunities if there aren’t any. I see them absolutely at PAR. If you check out all the so called normal people around, they are situational challenged in some or the other way. We make situations as an abrupt excuse to not follow what we are seeing beyond reality, life taken for granted. There is always A tomorrow. Some may consider it as a positive attitude or laid back attitude, completely depends upon one’s situational perception.


But check out the so called not so normal people around, they live only for today as if there is no tomorrow. They are not waiting for a better change to take place, they make the change happen. They do whatever possible to their utmost potential…sometimes taking an extra mile. They have a unique power and that’s what cuts them apart from the rest of the intellectual world.


All that I can understand is each one of them is gifted with challenges and I actually mean it when I say “gifted”, be it physically or situationally. No one has an escape to it, the more you escape the more you attract them. So better face it, penetrate through it and get ready for the next one.


The question is who is more challenged? In a way Every one and if you do a comparison No one.


So next time you see a physically challenged person, do not sympathize…Empathize. They are no different from you :) 

I Fear!!

What’s the origin?


Humans are very careful living things. We care about ourselves, friends, family, acquaintances, strangers… actually the entire world. JOne who cares about the entire world’s opinion and never listen to inner self shall develop fear the failure. The different between the 3% of the entire world’s population which consists of so called successful people is that they always believed in giving more priority to their own opinion.

Fear is something that we as parents teach children…Don’t go there, you shall hurt yourself. Don’t climb, you will fall. We tell our children to take care…in short “Have fear”

Now come on…don’t think that I am asking to be ruthless and brutal, but trying to give a different angle to from where this fear comes into existence. If it comes from what we care, then where does care come from….ATTACHMENT!!

And attachment is just an extension of emotions, but again that’s what makes us HUMAN ..right? I mean how can one not be emotional and unattached?



Let me give another angle…emotions are extremely pure and it allows one to be free and allows to have a complete experience of whatever comes on the way...but when these emotions are mixed with doubt it gets converted into FEAR and thus making limitations around us. This will only bound us and making one feel claustrophobic with too many questions like “why me, why not, how”



Somehow…I feel being unattached means a complete submission towards the circumstances and doing what is required, as YOU are chosen for that role rather than getting entangled in the web of hopes and desires of receiving something in future. Being unattached means having complete trust and faith that everything has a reason to come and it contributes to the higher Intention.



Life sounds so simple when you actually realize yourself, but life seems way too complicated when we choose not to heed the voice which speaks to us continuously in silence.

Women!

Wise….Outstanding…Motivation…Ethic…Natural …

Who and what is this human looking creature known as women?The qualities a true women cant be described in any form..but can be felt in many ways…


Women is that string which binds relationships together, who cares for you even knowing the darkest part of you, who loves uncondionally and goes a step ahead to make you feel special in some or the other form.



The way she gives her all to make you comfortable…to make you feel special…to care about each and every small thing…to understand your needs. Its about you, yet keeping her individuality, integrity unalterted. The depth of her thoughts can be only be felt…when it is understood.

A modern woman is the one…who takes the onus of herself & her loved ones…and moves on solving all mystery of life by herself…

The world calls this species as a COMPLEX ONE!! But she dares to solve the ambiguity…


She is independent yet takes care of her dependents….she is free yet she is aware of her limits…she is modern yet preserves her traditional values…she is an achiever yet down to earth...She gives birth to a life and takes the responsibility to makes it worth living ...

She helps…She loves..She cares..She lives..She is THERE!!!